As I have thought about the events of the last few weeks, one thing that seems to be clear is that communication is an issue. People from both sides of the spectrum often talk past one another. We don’t often stop to listen, before we charge ahead and throw our “two-cents” into the ring. I am reminded of a number of passages that tell us of the importance of communication and relationships. This applies not only to the climate we find ourselves in right now, but also to marriage relationships, family relationships or any other relationship of which you can think. Over the next few weeks we will take a moment to look at the 4 rules of communication. It is important because of what we have been called to do in these days. Listen to the following passages that set the stage for these next few weeks:
“James 1:19 This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; James 1:20 for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. James 1:21 Therefore, putting aside all filthiness and all that remains of wickedness, in humility receive the word implanted, which is able to save your souls. James 1:22 But prove yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves.” (James 1:19–22 NAS95)
Notice what we are called to:
Be QUICK to HEAR… If we are to rush to anything, it is first to listen! The context of this passage calls us to listen to God first and foremost, but it also applies in every relationship.
Be SLOW to SPEAK… This does not mean that we are doormats or passive, it means that we have taken the time to listen and then prayerfully respond.
Be SLOW to ANGER … This is so different than our culture wants us to respond. Culture provokes us to be angry at so many different things, but we are to be slow to anger. James gives us the reason – Humanity’s anger is most often sinful and does not measure up to God’ righteousness.
Put OFF that which is sinful! Allow the word of God to expose, and then walk in obedience under the control of the Holy Spirit.
And one more quick passage for you to meditate on:
“He who gives an answer before he hears, It is folly and shame to him.” (Proverbs 18:13 NAS95)
If we fail to listen first, and just jump ahead, we risk missing the point and possible shame.
These passages set our posture for communicating. As we move forward and learn the four rules of communication, may God grow us to be more mature and “healthy” in every area of our lives.
Pastor Dave
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